That's Not My Problem Oxymel Tincture

This oxymel tincture supports us becoming more aware when we are taking on other people's problems, as our own. When others see us as resourced and available they may bring their problems to us with the expectation that we will use our own creative life force to come up with solutions. We can instead learn to create space for others to stay grounded and present while they grow their capacity to learn from their own mistakes and make healthier choices. We can identify and address the thought distortions and conditioning that feeds the tendency to try to rescue and protect others from experiencing their own emotional pain. We may default into enmeshment, matching energy and becoming the unconscious caregiver as a way to relieve our own discomfort with seeing others experiencing growing pains. Ultimately this medicine is a pattern disruptor which will allow us to learn to take care of our own needs and then from that place to be the channel not the source for others healing. We can als